Thursday, September 29, 2011

Photographers and such....

So I know I suck at this whole keeping a blog up to date. But hey, I'm working on it. I'm working on my whole life and I've come a long way in the last year and a half. I've come a long way in the last several months. I've (and continue too) bettered myself for my kids, my husband and myself. But this can be the subject of another post. Haha.

The real reason of this post is a bit of a let-go. I don't like ragging on other photographers, I really don't. But when I feel that people are getting ripped off, or should get better than they do. That's when I'll rag. And I'm not going to mention anyone in particular. To me, being a photographer is not all about owning a good camera and some editing software (of course those do have something to do with it, but I'll get to that in a minute.) It's about having skill. Knowing when to shoot, how to shoot, how to edit that picture. I have seen so many photographers over edit the picture. And I will admit, I did it way too much when I started editing. But when you have been doing it for a couple years than you should know how much editing is enough and how much editing is too much.

Now, on to the whole camera and software thing. You don't have to have the top line camera. I mean, mine isn't top line, it's closer to the bottom line, but it has to be good enough. I do think that in order to charge for your sessions and pictures, they should be decent quality. And I have yet to see anything less than a DSLR do that. (Feel free to prove me wrong, though) They shouldn't be gritty or pixilated, nor should they be to dark or to bright. If your photographs aren't thier absolute best, you shouldn't charge for them. That's why I don't yet charge. My skill is definitely getting better. But it's not advanced enough yet to charge.

All in all. For those that are photographers, check your work. I'm sure it's beautiful to you,and possibly to your clients, but get an outside source. Get someone to critique it, and don't be afraid of criticism, it will only build you up.
And for those looking for a photographer. Don't just pick the first one up you find. Look through their portfolio, visit their website, speak with them personally, ask to see prints (because they do look different on and off screen), and read reviews from past clients. You deserve only the best memories frozen in time! Till next time
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Saturday, September 3, 2011

My thoughts on child abuse and such...

so I'm everyone has heard and is talking about the story about the young mom that went to jail for hitting and blowing marijuana smoke into the baby’s mouth. And it honestly blows my mind. I went to school with her, and if I wouldn't of seen the video myself I probably wouldn't beleive it. It makes me sick and feel sorry at the same time. I can understand making mistakes and I can understand having a bad day...but a child like that doesn't deserve what she got just for crying or anything for that matter. And to be honest, it's situations like this that gives young moms a bad name.

The thought of child abuse makes me sick to my stomach and angers me to the point where I could probably punch someone in face so freaking hard for hurting a child. Now there is a difference between spanking a child and hitting a child. And at that young neither should happen. Of course every parent to each thier own parenting technique. I feel the Wright thing is not what she did. At 10 months you shouldn't even spank a child. There are other ways to discipline at that age. And when disciplining a child there needs to be a reason for it. And crying is not a reason. I can understand being fustrated and having a bad day. But there is nothing wrong (in the Wright opinion)with walking away for a few minutes to calm down and clear your head. It won't bother the child to cry for a moment or too. And on the crying note, there is always a reason a baby is crying. Take that moment away and calm down then try to figure out what is wrong. Nothing is as prescious as a child. Is it really worth thier life over a stressful moment or a bad day. Is it worth jail time? I think not. Just my thoughts...till next time
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